I only now saw your new thread.

Okay, I'll respond there. The only difference is that your H's stupidity is confirmed.

(((((((Hugs)))))))

Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.