I got one of H's cell phone bills in the mail, for some reason he never changed his address with them... It is killing me, I want to open it and see if hes been contacting her. If he is then thats it, all this is over.
Have you opened it yet? I think prob. most people would open it. I know some people believe in getting intel. I've just never been interested in that; I've tried to not find out stuff. I feel it would just hurt me; of course my H has been almost too honest & open about the OW. Also, I mean maybe the most important thing is that you do have a conversation about his contacting her and telling him that's a deal-breaker with you and see what he says about that. Karen