I want to thank all of your for your input. My wife and I discussed the issue of our "open" relationship. Here's where we are with it:
We embarked on this venture to improve our sex life. It worked wonderfully, and I think we both acknowledge that.
Now, we are on the right track. Sex has been so incredible and so different from the way it was, that I can't imagine going backwards.
So, we don't feel that we need to endanger our relationship by continuing to have others involved sexually with us. The one 3some we had was enough.
We passed the word on to our 3rd partner, and we hope and expect that our excitement for one another will stay.
I think we are damned lucky to have each other and to be able to enjoy our sensuality at our ages (61 and 50). And we are even more lucky to be so in love with each other.
divorced in 2003 Married in 12/2005 born 1948 wife born 1958 divorced in 2001