Uh.. wtf!? I have NO intentions of swooping anywhere, nor rescue, "a bloody soap opera"? How rude
Honestly Ali, I was not trying to insult you.
Your threads are very detail oriented, and yes, they could one day make a fascinating novel.....or Soap Opera.
And as far as rescuing....
When a MLC'er returns to the relationship they can be very needy and depressed and need help readjusting and coming to grips with the damage they have done.
As well as mourning and grieving the previous relationship, etc....
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.