Hi and welcome to our community here on the DB board. There are different neighborhoods (the forums) and good folks in each one. The more neighbors you reach out to and put a post on their thread, then the bigger support group you will build up. Don't be shy b/c we all had to start here some place.
The more you can tell us about your stitch (story) the more it will help us. What are his main reasons for wanting to give up on the marriage? Is he showing signs of a MLC? So many people who have been married for about that length of time seem to go through a period of MLC. What are some major changes you have noticed? Do you suspect there is another woman? Is he staying out late and going places without you? Just fill us in on some more details.
Don't stop posting b/c it will help you more than you could possibly know.
Take care, Sandi2
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
