whoever had the love and respect link, it is so true. I mean we've known this for hundreds of years. It's been in the bible for goodness sake! Men love your wives, and wives respect your husbands! This definitely is a big big issue between spouses in our generation.

Mindblank, congrats on the job thing! I haven't had time to catch up on this thread, but I will. Happy Mothers day!

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."