Sandi-your two posts on this thread are the most incredible I have read. Probably because they have given me an understanding that I just couldn't see on my own.

6-please take Sandi's posts seriously. I am telling you that your sitch is a clone of mine. I'm you 1 year from now. I would give anything to go back and give it a shot knowing what Sandi posted. Even if it meant dealing with all the pain again. Where I am sucks. You may not be able to see it because of your anger. I've been there bro, trust me. Ask Puppy, Phoenix, FIB, Coach, Bworl and others. But Sandi is providing some unbelievable stuff here for you.

So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and get back in the game. With no expectations. With unconditional love. With Strength and Honor. Make sure you've done everything you can. It's worth it bro. You don't want to be me-trust me on that one.

I'm praying for you.

Tough times don't last, tough people do.

Sandi-you're remarkable.


M 43
W 44
M 17
T 22
S16,12,9
Bomb 2/05/08
I served her 1/06/09
S'd 3/15/09
D'd 12/21/09



"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.