In Limbo, yes you are very tired, sweetie. You need a lot of rest b/c I'm sure you are not sleeping very well. You need to eat a well balanced diet and the exercise is very good for you. All three of these work together to keep your strength through this bad stuff you're going through and you need to stay well.
I wished the two of you could talk about what will be said to the boys, but I can see where he probably wouldn't stick to what he said to you. Anyway, I hope that there won't be an argument break out in front of them. Think of it this way.......even if he comes out looking like he is a great dad and it is a mutual agreement.....the kids are going to be asking "you" more questions later on. You will have a better chance at answering their questions in your own way.
I know you would not paint him in a bad light, but neither should you try to make him out to be a hero when he isn't! Guess that is just my POV, but so many mothers do that when the dad's have practically deserted their kids.
Well, I know this weekend is not what your dreams are made of, but hope you will gather your strength and be prepared to show you are the best mom in the world........b/c those kids think you are and don't let anyone take that away!
Take care, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
