That is my game plan - to be myself - and I think he is struggling with me. I am so different from anyone he has ever met (people usually say that about me) and I have a complicated life - I am a complicated person to a point.
H called late in the day and requested a talk to resolve this matter as he admits he overreacted. Not very DB of me but I told him that I much too angry and hurt to have a rational convo. Then he asked me to meet him at therapy tommorrow to start working on our R. What's that? H thinks he can tell me one minute he wants the M and when things don't go his way he can quit? and once he cools down its on again?
Again, not very DB, but I told him that I didn't want to see or talk to him. I have had enough with the drama and uncertainty.
