Thanks for responding. Don't know what will happen - he was calling all night and this a.m. to argue. I kept cutting off the phone and refused to listen to the messages. I also called him back and plainly said that I didn't want to hear from him anymore.
This afternoon he called, sounded different and asked to talk things through admitting that he over reacted. Not very DB I agreed that he overreacted and just doesn't think about anyone but himself. H asked me to go to MC with him to help him understand my viewpoint... sounds good on the surface but I know him. This is his old behavior minus the drink.