The adventure continues--part 5

[AFWAW]

The purpose on exposure is not to punish your wife...it is to end the affair.

I know, I don't want her to go on seeing this man--I do still love her but at this point I don't see her ever wanting to come back.

I would rather the OM just get in trouble as she has told me he has had many "relationships" outside his marriage. This perplexes me the most of all. She knows all this and still persists that she loves him--maddening. She keeps on saying that none of this would have happened if I just retired and not gone anywhere. Do I feel a little guilty about leaving--yeah, I do. Did I force her to make poor decisions? No