Hi Simon.. thanks! It is incredible news, now its sunk in! J joked today that she deserved a bottle of fizz for her help and I said I had already decided to buy her a bottle of champagne if we get back together!!!..

FB is a funny thing. An old work mate requested me (his brother is BMF of my EA man, who isnt on FB, but I dont think I should accept). Wierdly, he is good friends with an old friend of my current ex. I looked at that guys friends list and found.. a girl who I was sensitive about.. as she was in love with my ex for 10 years? (he turned her down though). So wierd to see her face pop up and I also now have her surname and know she still lives up North. Guess my mind was turning to.. so what happens next, now that he is single again and got his EA/PA out of his life? He is cast adrift.. theres no gaurantee he will come back to me, he could get snapped up by someone else! Guess its good news he says I am his soulmate though.

So he did it.. "Brian the Snail" as my friends refer to him to me, has finally got off the starting blocks and entered the race. God.. there are a million questions I would love to ask him and of course, I cant.