Trusting, It just has to play itself out. The cruise is not going to fix anything. It may make things nice for a little while.
It is good that you're able to have some empathy for him.
I feel as if you have some insights into your H/OW situation that I do not have. I would have more hope if I had the sense that the relationship is not all rainbows and sunshine. I got some of that sense when I saw H's apartment, but I also see him fawning over her. I don't have the sense that the blush is really off the rose. But who knows. I don't have enough contact to really have a sense any more.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D