I feel like my W needs to know what's going on in her body and understand these changes. Is it wise to bring this up? How?
I'm thinking something along the lines of perhaps suggesting that I realize she's going through some changes, I want to be there for her. I don't want to blame everything in her life on this stuff but recognize that it does have influence.
I got my ears pinned back suggesting this. It comes across as fixing, the problem is hormonal not what I had done, and that hormones were running her life. I wouldn't run with this unless it comes up by accident and you just ask cause you are curious.
You could tell her but you're not a doctor so why would it mean anything coming from you when she knows you would do anything to keep her and your marriage?