You have been following SP's thread, you may have read that portion of the threat I wrote on attraction and things that kill attraction - do you realize you are doing those things that kill attraction. How would you hope a separation from your wife and you living in another location is going to help your situation?
The definition of 180s would doing something that is the opposite of what your normal expected reaction would be.
Currently you're not doing a 180
Do you see this?
If you want to spark attraction with your wife towards you, you have to act like an attractive man - part of that means living for yourself, respecting & loving yourself and letting go of putting her needs first. You are exhibiting wimp & wuss like behaviors, I see this stuff so often now after going through all of this that it's a wonder that the male population hasn't been decimated to keeping a few choice males around just for breeding purposes.
