No, guess I really haven't prepared for the worst yet. Don't even want to think about it. I know the reality, and graveness, of the situation...I guess I'm just not ready to be there. Sorry!
One day while you are still beating yourself up a thug is most likely going to serve you the "papers". Prepare for the worst. Talk to a lawyer and find out how you can protect yourself in 2 areas - child custody and money/property. If you don't do this you haven't got Stockdale on your side.
I don't want it to happen, although I know it might. I'll have to deal with it when and if it does. I know where I stand on those issues, as of now. Stockdale is present and accounted for, maybe not close to full force though. Those issues can change too, especially in the thick of things. Your advice and input is appreciated.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.