The adventure continues--part 5

[AFWAW]

Could it be that a small part of you hopes that outing her with the military will be one last desperate attempt to get her to come back around to you?

I thought so at first but now I'm just more of the mind that I've done the right thing(s) so far in the military and have not gotten promoted and she is doing the wrong things(illegal) and probably will. So, is that fair? Of course not. I think that if I expose it will probably decrease my chances of getting back together with her--but hey, it doesn't look like my chances are that good anyway. One of my strengths and it can be considered a weakness at times is that I carefully consider my decisions about most things and really take my time. I am trying to be logical here, really.

If they just PCS cheaters and move them elsewhere, it really doesn't provide the therapeutic process she needs to address the root of the problem. (Perplexing, actually, that this is the solution... It's almost as short-sighted as moving a pedophile priest to a different parish.)

I don't know, maybe. But she is in a special duty assignment and would have to actually go work out in the Combat Air Force and deploy(she never has). She would have to experience what its like and I think she's due for that.

But the reality is that our taxes support and our children are subject to all kinds of lecherous beasts in the world.

True, but if no one does anything about it then when does it end?

Rock bottom will be to cut her loose. Cheating will no longer be an addiction because there will be no one to cheat on.

Maybe so, but you and I don't know the answer to that. She has already admitted to being an attention addict and will keep going until she self-destructs IMO. I mean, come on, let's be realistic--if she wanted to she could go out every night and not even try and have a different man every night. Guys can't do that without effort. She enjoys the attention and if all the guys want is sex from her then she may give it to them--just thinking here.

But, I really think it will benefit you and your D in the long run if she stays on her career path, makes money, and contributes to D's ivy league education.

She doesn't contribute that much--only about $600 a month in child support so far. I have a college plan for my D.

Good points Lucky and I'm thinking about them. Thanks.