Ahh.. I took a look at the link. I see what you mean now. I think we are talking at cross purposes then. I am referring to the nature of Dans preferences, not the pattern of them (an addictive pattern) but that is part of it, yes. I was talking about the things that you bravely described he was into, on your last thread. I am not sure you can be 'cured' of those preferences, but perhaps of simple sex addiction yes.
You could be into gay sex for example AND then be addicted to sex (which is a recognised addiction you are right). So, yes, you could be cured of the addiction, but not of being gay.
I respected my sisters decision to stand by her H and we did alot of talking and research (she couldnt tell anyone else), but in the end she chose to walkaway. I respect your decision to handle it how you need to Bobbi too.
