I really don't care that much anymore. My stomach kinda drops when I realize what was happening a year ago, but I think that may always happen because I was so completely blindsided. But it just doesn't hurt so much, finally.
D13 doesn't talk much about it, and refuses when I bring it up. The best I can determine is that she's feeling a little less stress and pressure over the past few weeks--probably because she can now talk about the cats they have that she didn't think she could mention!
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012