I really don't care that much anymore. My stomach kinda drops when I realize what was happening a year ago, but I think that may always happen because I was so completely blindsided. But it just doesn't hurt so much, finally.

D13 doesn't talk much about it, and refuses when I bring it up. The best I can determine is that she's feeling a little less stress and pressure over the past few weeks--probably because she can now talk about the cats they have that she didn't think she could mention!


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012