Does it sound ignorant of me to say that I'm kind of dumbfounded at this point?
Kind of like the dog that finally catches a squirrel.
You need to be prepared to have a dialouge on what needs to be resolved on both sides. How you are going to communicate better in the future. How you will monitor progress. What behavior that has been unhealthy needs to changed. Describe to each other what this new, better, stronger, wiser and healthier M will look like. Plus all the logistical issues. Be prepared for setbacks, misunderstandings, and some repeat behavior. All that you learned will still be valid in piecing. You can handle it. Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.