The adventure continues--part 5

[StrgMarvelousWmn]

Stuck,

I don't buy your premise that the only two choices are:

1. fight honorably for your marriage

2. Expose out of anger and retribution, calling your wife all kinds of bad names in the process.

It is possible to expose honorably; to speak the truth in love, and to let her face the consequences of her own decisions. There is a "third way."

I do agree with you, however, that it should only be done as a last resort, after the cheating spouse has been given multiple chances to end their affair. I also think you should only do it if you're prepared to face the inevitable blowback.

Puppy

This is why I have not exposed my DH's affair to his command. The repercussions for me and the kids would be significant n i have not worked in almost 5 years. Even an anonymous exposure has repercussions that would resonate through the kids' lives for a long time financially.

Laura