I have thought about this a lot. H denies that OW had anything to do with us and our problems and why he left and stated it would be a lot easier for him to do what he is doing to me if he had a reason like OW to leave me for, but that that was not the case.
I think that's in the WAS script. My H has said that dozens of times too, his leaving and D had nothing to do with OW and the fact that they had an EA and then a PA that began a month earlier. Yeah, right! I think only a WAS would believe something like that!!! BTW, you were probably miserable b/c at some level you realized your H was having an EA or PA! My H picked fights everyday too, blamed me for everything, he was genuinely nasty... Karen
I think only a WAS would believe something like that!!! BTW, you were probably miserable b/c at some level you realized your H was having an EA or PA! 
My H picked fights everyday too, blamed me for everything, he was genuinely nasty... Karen