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And if it helps you to know this, let me just say it: her heart is going to be smashed to pieces when she gets dumped by the OM and she really realizes that the "love" she felt for him was just a puff of smoke in a mirror...she will feel like a pile of dung....and THEN after the pain of THAT wears off, she will look in the real mirror and realize what she's really done to YOU and her daughter and the extended family. In one moment, she will be all at once aware of what she has really done. Right now, she says things like "oh what have I done, how could you forgive me, I am horrible" but this is not true understanding on her part, its just fog-babble. Later, when the real truth really hits her, she will go through what you are going through now. Please don't doubt me on that one....there is nothing anyone can do to save her from that eventual outcome.


Sadly, I'm actually counting on it--I've actually prayed for her to hit rock bottom. I think it will come after I turn her in. I think she deserves to suffer as much as she has made me and her daughter suffer--hell, her Mom is depressed about it as well--she just called me from her vacation in Vegas to see how I was feeling. I'm also considering calling the OM's wife as well.


M-41
ex-W-40
Together--17 years
SS-20
D-14
Bomb--2 Feb 09
WAW--6 Feb 09
Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!!
ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!!
Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!