Well The W received the flowers at work - I got any email from her thanking me for them. I had called her and asked her to go Tuesday for dinner - as a late mothers day treat. She declined - no reason as for why just no I can't, and that the flowers are enough - I said ok not a problem.
I then asked her if she would try and talk to me a little bit more, I was trying to open up the lines of conversation between us a little more. The answer i got for that was why, I really have nothing to say to you, and with what the therapist said, when we tried counseling, is that I didn't want to hear her nagging and that she had nothing nice to say. I told her its alright, the therapist is not always right, I would like to hear your nagging and everything else, no matter how mean, that you have to say, about whatever is on your mind. I didn't get any kind of response so I guess I'll have to just wait and see if she opens up to me. I'm hoping that she does so that I can get some more ideas on where I need to work on myself and improvement to become a better person.
Me 35 W 30 S 3 M 7 : T 13 yrs Separated 2/20/09 My Story