Separated & OW coming into picture

[hopeful_cb]

I have thought about this a lot. H denies that OW had anything to do with us and our problems and why he left and stated it would be a lot easier for him to do what he is doing to me if he had a reason like OW to leave me for, but that that was not the case.

I know I can't always trust what he is saying to justify his actions and am not a fool.

Last week when he brought up OW with me(first time) he said he was annoyed that I had seen this coming(w this particular OW) before he did or even felt that way about her(as I had told him what I thought was happening w OW after he left). Still thinking on that comment.

I remember clearly about 3 weeks after the bomb H told me I am always miserable and he can't be around it anymore. I obviously was miserable then considering what was happening! but then like you said if I really am miserable to be with he would NOT want to spend time with me now.