Can't seem to get any answers from anyone. I do find that I need another human's opinion sometimes. It's been a long low ride so far, but H hasn't filed yet. He has put together a $1,200 settlement agreement, which he says he wants me to sign. I've been "almost very dark" for months now. May 29th it will be a year that we are separated. (He's got it in his settlement agreement that we were separated in Nov. 07, but that is a lie). He even admitted it. I told his atty to change it but, so far, she hasn't.
Anyway, I'm getting off track here. My dilemma is this... May 26th is our anniversary. I have a gf, who supports me, and posed the question, should I send him an anniversary card? The last I spoke to him, I asked him if he wanted me to "not reach out" to him, and he said yes. I want to send him a card, but part of me is afraid that he might take that as a negative since he mentioned for me not to "reach out." Part of me also wonders if he may be sorry he said that.
