Originally Posted By: Phoenixdeux
Mules,

I'm struggling. Struggling not just to bash your wife, but suddenly I'm actually smiling about the neighbor. Imagine him even thinking he won something. Can you believe that he might honestly think that he got something worth keeping? He got the messed up woman that used to be someone who was your wife (but is now who knows what) and you got the kids. I am so happy for you that you got custody of the kids. It's so great!

I think it would be too weird for your kids to go over to the neighbor's house for visitation...I would see whether you can get it in the decree that visitation cannot occur over there. Get the counselor to testify how warped and harmful it is to the kids. Make sure that you don't forget to make her pay child support. She has a financial obligation to the raising of the kids.



Hey Phoenix!! Great to hear from you! Thanks for the good wishes. Like you told me a long time ago - I'm going to be ok.

The neighbor is not allowed in the kid's presence. And the kid's would never go to his house. It's not an issue. I'm finally looking into moving. I have to wait two weeks for some papers to go through the courts and then as long as STBXW agrees, then I cna put the house up. And since all she wants is money now - that won't be an issue.

The child support will be coming up in the next month. I don't even care - let her do her thing at this point. She is losing everything that ever really mattered. She just doesn't know it yet.

Thanks for all your help and support.

Strength and Honor.


M 43
W 44
M 17
T 22
S16,12,9
Bomb 2/05/08
I served her 1/06/09
S'd 3/15/09
D'd 12/21/09



"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.