WOW!!! Sandi - what an unbelievable post. 6 you are very lucky. If i had read that a year ago - I would probably be in a very different situation right now. My W was in the same boat as yours and I believe the way I handled steered her in a certain direction. Reading sandi's post brought tears to my eyes as well. Makes me feel like I really blew it!
The only thing I will say is that my W never let anyone suggest anti-depressants to her. Anyone that did was completely shut out by her. I will post more - still digesting that awesome post!
6 - this is a huge advantage for you!
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"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.