He took me by surprise a little yesterday. When he left Wednesday night after our "chat" (ok I did 99% of the talking), he said he would see me Friday at Nathan's karate graduation. Fine, no problem.
So I was home with Nathan sick yesterday, all day. Went and got our D from day care, ate dinner, etc etc. Was out mowing the back yard around 7:30 while Nathan was watching tv and Sydney came out with me. Looked up from mowing and saw Dan going into the garage's back entry door.
I finished mowing (20 minutes or so) then came up to the house. He had come to work more on the playset. I asked if he needed help, he said sure. So I helped him work on the playset for 20 minutes, then went in and bathed the kids and put them to bed. Came back out to finish helping him.
We did some small talk, nothing of any importance. I just hope you are right Mish and he is "marinating"....
Only two weeks till we are out of school. That is when I told him I would file. I hope he acknowledges our conversation between now and then. Otherwise I am 100% that I will follow through. I am going by my pastor's advice. Give him one last chance to choose our marriage and be crystal clear about it. Then, move forward without hesitation.
