Thanks for the response, I have been reading a lot of good advice here and other threads.

There's no clear cut answer to any of this stuff, I know, and I need to continue to focus on GAL, Act as if, etc.

I'll likely go this Saturday night, but that is my decision, and not caving in to what my W wants. I have other plans for Sunday, and will keep those with my D.

M: 41
STBXW: 41
D: 9
Bomb: 4/26/09

On board the D train now..

"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."