Thanks for the insight pearl! That's some good info that I will keep for later though, like you said. In our case, it's something that crept up on us. We used to be ML ~3 times a week, which was satisfying both of us I believe. Then it started tapering off and I had to do more and more of the initiating. I think her meds played some role in that, so maybe it will correct itself with time since she's off it?
Well, didn't get to go to the movies. One of our boys got sick, so we didn't want to leave him with a sitter. We'll do something next week tho. Next Tue is our anniversary. I want to do something, but not go overboard of course, so it will be a small gift and a card. And maybe we will go out to eat?
We are spending Mother's day together and we'll have brunch with her parents. And we are having friends over on Sat night. That's it folks (for now).