You did a loving, compassionate thing by talking to Dan and opening up what is probably a dark subject for him. No one likes to have their dirty laundry put in front of them, but it's necessary sometimes to affect possible change.
Now, IMO, all you can do is follow through on your own plans and let Dan stew. I'm sure that there is no way he could sweep what you said away and ignore it. Don't you think that if he was going to deny all of it and pretend that none of that has an effect on him that he would have jumped to that immediately. The fact that he seemed reflective and in agreement with you speaks volumes.
I'll pray for you BBJ. You and your kids and Dan.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
