I believe I have done a pretty good job so far of not projecting my own feelings onto S's. Pre-bomb, one of my faults was bringing the kids into fights with H because I was so protective of them and the way he treated them. I would also intervene on their behalf when I didn't agree with what he was doing. Since bomb, I have done a lot of soul searching regarding that and it's one of the changes I have made and think I'm doing well with.
Emotions are settling a bit now. Will see if I can maintain that through the day and even through the weekend. One day at a time...one day at a time.
I appreciate you checking in on me, especially with all you have going on. It means alot just to have a line of communication with someone who has lived this and survived.
Me 39 H 38 T22/M15 S11 S7 EA Confirmed 3/11/09 Sep Weekdays Only 4/09