When you said drop card in his vehicle that made me think of the other day I put his sweatshirt in his van (2seat cargo van) and I noticed his divorce papers still scattered between the 2 seats. I used to tell him that he needed to clean out his van, but this time I never said a word. Maybe he'll lose the papers. (ha-ha) H is doing divorce himself. (pro-se)

The first week of March he actually asked me to help him fill out his divorce paperwork. He said that way we both match !! I looked at his papers so I could get a heads up on which way he was headng with divorce and then I told him that no I'm sorry but he was capable of doing his own paperwork since he wants this divorce.

I still have hope that we can get turned around before the final D-day. I feel like I'm living in a nightmare


Me: 46 H: 38
D: 6
M: 8-2-2003
Left Nov. 28, 2008 - He filed for D 2-18-09
1st D-Day was 6/9/09 H missing papers
FINAL: 8/1/09 done thru the mail