Limbo,

I'm really glad you got to go to the tea too. It's all the little stuff, you know?

Treadmill is a good idea if you can manage it. I know even now, but esp early on I would have exploded without the exercise (no, I am not the exercise queen).

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also think that's got to be confusing to the kids. They've seen us hug and kiss and do date nights more since bomb than in the past year. Now we tell them Dad's moving out. What kind of mixed message is that?!?!?


On ething it took me quite awhile to own (and arguably at times I still don't) is that I get to be angry for me. I tended to project what D's might think and feel as a way of distancing my own feelings of hurt, betrayl and anger and not really dealing with them. It took me awhile.

I don't have a current thread. I keep meaning to start another one, but I've been gone for awhile b/c my plate is too full. Sadly, has to do with some serious stuff with D14. It will all be ok in the end.

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Never thought I'd be so dependent on an online forum. Go figure.


This bb has been a life saver for me and I never would have thought either. The generosity, compassion and (when necessary) in your face comments are fabulous.