I got one of H's cell phone bills in the mail, for some reason he never changed his address with them... It is killing me, I want to open it and see if hes been contacting her. If he is then thats it, all this is over.

I really feel like we have been making positive progress and while I never asked his specifically to not talk to her, and he never promised me that he wouldnt. I dont want to be friends with someone who thinks that still talking to the woman who destroyed your M while still carrying on regular correspondence with your W is ok.

But now I am making all of these assumptions with no real evidence... yet.

Argg. Should I look or not?

I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...