I, like many here, cannot wait to post our success stories too! I am in the roller coaster phase right now - just trying to hang on while my W figures it all out. Working on myself, and I know she sees the improvements - and I'm happy with my personal improvements too. All part of the GAL, which is great advice.
I'm DBing to the best of my ability, seeing a DB counselor, using this forum, praying...you name it! I feel in my heart that we will make it - I hope my W starts feeling this too.
I'm still working it... Your success story gives us hope! Again, congratulations on your new life!
Me: 46 W: 46 M: 9.5 yrs D4, D9 D filed by her 11/3/08 Agrees to try rec at mediation 1/28/09 Says she still wants D in counseling 3/25/09 W and I back in DB counseling (!) 8/20/09 3rd Bomb 9/2/09