Newly separated...spouse left, 3rd thread

[antlers]

Strength and wisdom to do what though?

to get the answer to this

How do I know what He's telling me?

Your relationship is between you and God ONLY.

Like Coach said this needs to be for you and you can't think about her in all this, like you said she's in a fog and only she can bring herself out.

Strength and wisdom to know what God is telling me? Strength and wisdom to know His will for me, and to see it through?

Are you saying my relationship between my wife and I is between God and I ONLY, or my relationship between God and I is between God and I ONLY?

I know it needs to be for me, and I don't even want to think about her...but you know how hard it is to not think about them! I do believe she is in a fog, and nobody or nothing can bring her out (except for God) and that only she can bring herself out. Sounds like she's gonna divorce me before that happens though. Damn! It hurt bad to hear the stuff I heard from her on April 30th. I said a lot of awful stuff to her over the years, and I didn't mean any of it, although she thought I did. When she says the stuff she does...she means it! I hate it that things are this way. I'd give anything for a chance now, with her, knowing the things that I know now.