Thanks, your probably right, should go and try and DB.

Which brings up something else, the last few school functions I have been too, I noticed one of the childrens fathers has been paying a lot of attention to my W. He often will make sure he steps between us to talk to her.

Last time we had an event, my W spent the event holding hands with his Child, Which I didn't think much of, as she teaches in that class, and that child has become attached to my W, but he also stood between me and my W during most of the proceeding. I tried not to read anything into it, but maybe the are becoming EA?

If this happens during this auction, I know I have to act as if nothing is up, control my anxiety, etc, any tips on how to manage this so I don't seem to be bothered by it? This is tough stuff for me, I have a hard time letting stuff like that go, and/or turning my mind from it, so that I focus on myself, and what is going to make me happy..


M: 41
STBXW: 41
D: 9
Bomb: 4/26/09

On board the D train now..

"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."