PM Thread #5 - Hope new plan works

[PositivelyMommy]

That sounds so great! Well done, you totally rocked!

That is great that he commented that you looked good I also think that you got him thinking about the very real possibility that he may have to lose you and share his kids. You were so brave!

You know, even if you don't a have a r talk right away I have found you can bond over other talk and sometimes that leads to a r talk when the time is right. So long as you work out a way to communicate about things again it can open up opportunities later on.

When WAS's leave they have so much power, we walk on eggshells and I think they get used to that, in fact I think it enables them. That balance is shifting and you are showing yourself to be a strong, powerful woman - and that is so attractive!

I agreed with everything you said, JCJ. It's funny how everyone here commented on H's observation about my looks. I wonder why. Does it mean that H is seeing me thru different eyes now but does his comment signify that he can really see 'me' now, not the victim he has to feel guilty over. Anyway, I will think about it some more because everyone here commented on it.

JCJ, I agree about talking about other things and that is why I would like to see what he says this weekend. I will try to keep it light. I will only go to the 'touchy subjects' if he broaches them himself.

I definitely feel a shift in power. It feels GOOOOOD to be in control of myself and my life again. Yeh!