Today I am talking with a mortgage company about refinancing. I told them if they could get my appraisal where I need it then I will go with them for the refinance. I have my fingers crossed that it works. This way I can get all my bills put into one payment.
Then I am selling my house. I won't get much for it but I won't have the mortgage payment to deal with. I have to split what is left over after everything is paid for with my stbxh and would rather do that now when he won't get as much then wait. Yes, I know I won't get as much either but I will walk away with a little money in my pocket and no bills. To me, this is a new start. I want to get rid of everything that reminds me of stbxh. I need a fresh start.
