I think it all sounds wonderful!!! Yeah, if he was happy, it does seem like he would look it or not look miserable. I love that he noticed how hot you looked, and it was great that he knows you don't plan to sit on a shelf in case he might be interested in you again someday. And yeah, that person when you get remarried would be a huge figure in your kids' life, b/c I know some guy is not going to let you get away! I think WAS have all this stuff planned out and then it doesn't wind up like they wanted, which is good.
Yeah, Karen, that was my message to him two weeks ago. 'I intend to move if you don't decide to come back.' But I wanted to appear to him to be happy, content with whichever decision he made. No pressure, no emotional blackmail, that this decision would be all his own. And hopefully he will consider to see me as an option. I don't need him to come back to me right away, but just see me as an option, I am willing to make this baby step.
And you are right regarding their perfect plan doesn't work out right. In fact, I don't think any of it has turned out right for him and that is why he is miserable.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
Yeah, if he was happy, it does seem like he would look it or not look miserable. I love that he noticed how hot you looked, and it was great that he knows you don't plan to sit on a shelf in case he might be interested in you again someday. And yeah, that person when you get remarried would be a huge figure in your kids' life, b/c I know some guy is not going to let you get away! I think WAS have all this stuff planned out and then it doesn't wind up like they wanted, which is good. 
