Thanks everyone !! I appreciate all the insight, please keep it coming, unfortunately I only have access to a computer monday thru friday at work.

My H's b-day is coming up may 23 -- my d-4 will give him a b-day card but I really would like to as well. I have picked up 3 cards now. No Husband b-day card w/mush in them (like I used to) I have a serious "someone special" card, plain friend one, and I have one that talks from the heart (doesn't say love or husband).

I can't believe that I'm going to ask this question, but should I give him a card? and maybe which one. I don't want to push him further away. No R talks, but it is his b-day.

Can't help but wonder if he'll remember that it's mothers day. Hope he helps my d-4 get a card for me, then again who knows.

For all the mothers on this site -- HAPPY MOTHERS DAY !!


Me: 46 H: 38
D: 6
M: 8-2-2003
Left Nov. 28, 2008 - He filed for D 2-18-09
1st D-Day was 6/9/09 H missing papers
FINAL: 8/1/09 done thru the mail