Remarriage and OW

[peacetoday]

I believe these mlcers somehow shutdown..their pain is too great
their guilt ect
they figure out a way to turn it all off
the OW
some drink/use drugs
spending
trips/clothing
running
all this numbs them
so many can go this road for a while until all the toys leave
and they are left to look at themselves
sadly I believe some will never really look at themselves
I have had to pick up the load as mother and dad
my XH is a very poor father in my eyes
he visits and taked kids to movies/gameroom/boyscouts
but he is emotionally dead a walking zombie as I see it
the hope here is for us I think
to create a great/better life despite the situation
time will heal all of us
peace