im not quite sure how to handle this -

even though h is home, he has stopped coming to bed. he falls asleep on the couch and either stays there, or moves to the couch in our office.

do i leave it alone? i realize this is an adjustment period, he hasnt even been home a month, but it is hurtful.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09