Refuse To Lose, Part XIII: Finally Free?

[AliSuddenly]

Hey Rob....

First she told me that she had broken up w/BF and explained why. He had been kind of crappy w/her and she then said "that was a big reason why I was so angry toward you...that and I had to work through some things."

She continued to say she'd found a new therapist who was "much, much better than my last one" and this therapist has her working through things in her past.

Anyway, the shocking part is she APOLOGIZED to me. She said "I'm sorry for being angry at you. I'm sorry that we haven't gotten along because of how I treated you. There are a ton of things I could apologize to you for, but I am sorry and I just hope you can forgive me or move past this. Please know I am not angry any more. I've been able to work through it."

WOW! THats a tonne of realisations and reality check, apologies and I dont know whats all rolled into one !! I'm really happy for you, if she is going to be less vitriolic from now on. And yes, I am sure you feel a little vindicated. But what did she mean.. she was being angry and narky with you because OM was treating her badly?? Did I read that right? I think I said she has no idea how hard it is to be "back at there" at this age and not every new R will last and not every new man will be as committed and faithful as you were.. so now she is learning perhaps what she threw away (without even trying to fix it). I'm not saying all R's will last, but it bugged me that for me and you and Kalni and others, they just up and walked out, no real discussion or any attempt to fix it before they left.

I am glad your W apologised to you! So how are you feeling about it, really?

xxx