Wow, he actually did it. He didnt want to come to the pub afterwards (naturally)...
Originally Posted By: AliSuddenly
He rang me 5-5.15ish then G rang him 8.30, when he told G he had ended it with her tonight! So he cant have spent a long time doing it (2 hours max?). He said he didnt want to come out as he felt really bad after dumping her. G and him are going out for a beer tommorow for a post match analysis.
Of course I am pleased, relieved mostly.. but if I dont sound excited.. to be honest, I kind of felt sorry for her and a bit annoyed at him for staying with her for so long that she got attached to him and he has hurt her. As a member of the sisterhood, thats not nice!...Still, that whole May thing is looking pretty likely hey!
I thought he might. I realised from his email, he is not in her office from today, he had a site visit tommorow and then was back in his own office from Monday and said how glad he was to get back to 'stability'. So I had a feeling, but I thought he might do it over the weekend. Wow, he couldnt stand her that much that he did it on a Thursday. Guess he really meant it when he said he would end it when the contract was up !
So.. hope she doesnt use her feminine wiles (or DBing!!) and try and win him back!? I am a little nervous he did it the day Mercury Retrograded, in case it wont stick...but thats just the nerdy astrologer in me.
I feel really lucky though. I dont think he finished with her JUST because he still loves me, I think its also because they are not soulmates and it wasnt meant to be. And of course, apart from me, or me and him... this is the first step for him being himself.. finding himself again and making better choices/decisions.
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
