Today is OW's bday so am feeling pretty crappy about it. H told me he got her a present, a picture frame. (don't know why he felt the need to tell me what he got her). It seems more thoughtful than what he got me (a gift voucher). I am pretty sure he will spend the evening celebrating with her, don't know if its a party or just the 2 of them. That makes me sick.
I have plans to meet up with a few friends at one of their houses and have a girls night. Probably nothing too crazy but glad to be out of house and not on my own thinking about it.
He still feels he is doing nothing wrong bc we are separated.
How do others deal with seeing spouse and not talking about the obvious, the OW? It feels so unnatural, like we are pretending that we both don't know what is happening?
Me-27 H-28 M-2.5 yrs T-8.5 yrs No kids B 1/09 S 2/09
