Ok, so I did see H on Wed, didn't expect to at all but when I checked phone at end of work day he had made several attempts to contact and left txt msgs saying can he come round tonight and help me with computer.
So after arranging a time(I had plans right after work & didn't cancel) he did come over.
It was all very pleasant, upbeat and friendly. We chatted had a look at some house stuff and then he asked if I wanted to grab a bite to eat with him so I did. We chatted more and went for a short walk after.
I didn't bring up our R or OW, so I guess that made it go well. I find it really hard to just talk to H like nothing is going on?? Is this the right thing to do?
I did ask him before we said our good bye's if he would like to do something fun sometime, and he said yes that would be good. We didn't set a day to do that yet tho.
Why would he even bother(or want) to come round and see me as he is 'dating' OW?
Me-27 H-28 M-2.5 yrs T-8.5 yrs No kids B 1/09 S 2/09