Thank you It was funny because when he kissed me I didn't kiss back because I was too gob-smacked and by the time it had registered that he had the moment had past! Also, he has grown a bead and it is bristly and I was kind of fighting that, lol. Still, it shows that he is relaxed with me and doesn't have such a huge WAS guard up.
I tried out something new with him too. When I have been on dates guys have commented on my eyes and if I look at them in a certain way it seems to um... work? So I tried that a little on H last night, for few short moments I held his gaze and then let it drop - I think it worked then too as a different (not bad) expression crossed his face. So I am going to slowly experiment more...